
Divorce is not just an emotional upheaval – it’s also a financial turning point. If you're facing the end of your marriage in Virginia, you may be asking yourself:
- Do I have to split all my assets with my spouse?
- What happens to my business, retirement accounts, or investments?
- Can I keep assets I owned before getting married?
- How does Virginia determine who gets what?
- How can I ensure my financial future is secure?
Virginia law does not require an automatic 50/50 split of assets. Instead, courts divide property based on what is fair under the circumstances. This guide explains how Virginia courts determine asset division, what you may have to share, and how you can protect your wealth.
Virginia’s Equitable Distribution Law: What It Means for Your Assets
Virginia courts divide marital property based on fairness, considering several factors rather than defaulting to a strict equal split.
Factors That Influence Asset Division in Virginia
Virginia courts take several considerations into account when dividing assets, including:
- Length of the Marriage: Longer marriages typically involve more intertwined finances, requiring a more detailed asset division.
- Financial Contributions: Each spouse’s earnings, investments, and other financial contributions to the household.
- Non-Financial Assistance: Contributions such as raising children or managing household responsibilities, or supporting a spouse’s career.
- Misconduct Affecting Finances: If one spouse hid assets, misused marital funds, or engaged in financial misconduct, this may impact the final division.
- Future Financial Needs: Each spouse’s earning ability, health, and financial stability post-divorce.
- Standard of Living During Marriage: Courts seek to maintain a reasonable lifestyle balance when dividing assets.
- Career and Education Contributions: If one spouse helped the other in obtaining an advanced degree or professional certification, that investment may be factored into the settlement.
Equitable distribution does not guarantee an even split but aims for a division that is fair based on these factors.
Marital vs. Separate Property: What You May or May Not Have to Share
One of the first steps in a Virginia divorce is determining which assets are marital and which are separate.
Marital Property (Subject to Division)
- Property, income, or assets acquired during the marriage, regardless of who purchased them.
- Joint bank accounts, real estate, vehicles, and shared investments.
- Retirement contributions made while married.
- Debt accumulated during the marriage.
Separate Property (Usually Not Divided)
- Property owned before marriage, unless it was mixed with marital funds.
- Inheritance or gifts given solely to one spouse.
- Personal injury settlements awarded to one spouse.
- Assets acquired after separation using personal funds.
When Separate Property Becomes Marital: Understanding Commingling
Separate property can become marital if it is mixed – or commingled – with shared assets, potentially losing its separate status in a divorce.
How Commingling Happens
- Merging Bank Accounts: If separate funds (such as an inheritance) are deposited into a joint account and used for shared expenses, they may be considered marital property.
- Investing in Joint Assets: Using separate money to renovate a family home or fund a spouse’s business could blur ownership lines.
- Paying Off Shared Debts: If one spouse uses their separate funds to pay off marital debt (e.g., credit cards or a mortgage), it can complicate asset classification.
- Retitling Property: Adding a spouse’s name to a previously separate property deed (such as a home) may turn it into a marital asset.
Protecting Separate Property from Commingling
If you want to ensure that your separate assets remain yours in the event of divorce, consider:
- Keeping Separate Accounts: Avoid mixing separate funds with marital finances.
- Maintaining Clear Records: Document transactions and keep proof of ownership for inherited assets, gifts, or property owned before marriage.
- Using Legal Agreements: Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements can help establish which assets should remain separate.
Understanding how commingling works can help you take proactive steps to protect your financial interests in a divorce.
What Happens to Complex Assets? Business Interests, Investments & Retirement Accounts
Business Ownership: Do I Have to Share My Business?
- A business started during the marriage is typically considered marital property. Even if one spouse managed it alone, contributions – financial or otherwise – may entitle the other spouse to a share.
- If the business was started before marriage but grew due to marital funds or labor, a portion of its value may be subject to division.
In high-asset divorces, business valuation is critical. A Virginia divorce attorney can help protect your interests and explore options such as:
- Buying out your spouse’s share: If the business is considered marital property, one spouse may offer a financial settlement to retain full ownership.
- Negotiating a settlement to keep ownership intact: Spouses may agree to offset the value of the business by awarding other assets (e.g., real estate, investments).
- Structuring a payment plan instead of selling the business: Courts may approve a structured buyout over time to allow continued operation without a forced sale.
Business owners should work with legal and financial professionals to protect their business and prevent misclassification of separate property during divorce.
Investment Portfolios & Stocks: What Happens in Divorce?
- Investments made during the marriage using shared funds are typically marital property.
- The court assesses the current market value and may split assets or adjust division through offsets with other property.
- Stocks acquired before marriage but transferred to a joint account may become marital assets.
Retirement & Pension Accounts: Are They Divided in a Divorce?
- A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) may be required to divide retirement plans without tax penalties.
- The portion of the account earned before marriage is generally considered separate property, while contributions made during marriage are marital.
A divorce lawyer, such as Laura L. McQuesten, can help ensure that retirement assets are divided properly without unexpected tax liabilities.
Can My Spouse Take My Inheritance? What About Hidden Assets?
Inheritance: Do I Have to Share?
Virginia law usually treats inheritances as separate property. Although challenges arise if:
- The inheritance was used for marital expenses (e.g., purchasing a home together).
- The funds were transferred into a joint account and combined with shared money.
- The spouse who received the inheritance failed to maintain records proving its separate nature.
To protect your inheritance, keep funds separate and maintain detailed records to verify their original source.
Hidden Assets: What If My Spouse Tries to Conceal Money?
In some divorces, one spouse may attempt to hide wealth to avoid fair distribution. Common tactics might include:
- Undisclosed bank accounts or offshore assets
- Cryptocurrency holdings that are difficult to trace
- Underreporting business revenue or personal income
- Transferring assets to relatives or business associates
If you suspect hidden assets, an experienced divorce attorney can work with forensic accountants to track financial discrepancies and uncover hidden wealth. Hiding assets in a divorce can lead to serious legal penalties.
Going Through a Divorce? Let The Law Office of Laura L. McQuesten Help You Secure a Fair Outcome
Dividing assets like businesses, retirement funds, investments, and real estate requires careful legal planning. Don’t make costly mistakes that could impact your financial future. Virginia’s equitable distribution laws can be complex, especially for high-net-worth individuals or those with substantial financial holdings.
At The Law Office of Laura L. McQuesten, we help clients throughout Virginia Beach, Norfolk, Chesapeake, Portsmouth, and Suffolk navigate the divorce process with confidence. Our goal is to protect what matters most to you and ensure a fair resolution.
Take the first step toward securing your financial future. Schedule a consultation with The Law Office of Laura L. McQuesten today.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For personalized legal guidance, please consult with a qualified attorney.